Answers to Questions
Question: Hello Jeffery, My wife and I have now been married for over a year, and it has been wonderful. We have, of course, already faced life’s challenges, but I genuinely feel that we have overcome them only by the grace of God and the strength that the Lord gives us through His Word. We […]
Question: If you feel you may have sinned against your spouse years ago, but they don’t know about it, do you have to tell them now? I should give the backstory because no, it’s not adultery. We were going for our second baby, and he wanted a boy, and I wanted a girl. I had
by Terry Wane Benton Question: Is having children too risky? Seeing that the majority will end up lost, I have seen a number of faithful Christians lose their children to the world. Answer: That is a pretty defeatist way of viewing things. When was it not risky? I’ve seen people who go at it already
Question: Hello Jeffrey, First, thank you for all the work and effort you have put into the site, Growing Up in the Lord for Boys. Even though I’m in my mid- to late 20s, I really appreciate your answers and how you give them a God-focused perspective while also dealing with the frank realities of being
Question: Good morning, sir. I want to ask about the biblical principle on surrogacy and IVF. To me, since it involves the termination of an embryo, it seems wrong and more like a scientific abortion. I’ll be glad if you can shed more light on this, sir. Thank you. Answer: Like many things, surrogacy and
Question: Good morning, brother Hamilton I don’t want to say I am a fan, but I learned a lot from the lessons, sermons, and questions and answers on the La Vista Church of Christ website, and I am still learning—glory to God for such initiative. I am grateful for having such a platform where I
Question: I have noticed that La Vista Church of Christ is one of the few congregations that tackles this sensitive issue. My question is in the case of the unconsummated marriage, does this indicate a de facto crisis within the marriage, or is the marriage act incidental, solely the business of the husband and wife
Question: I want to express my appreciation for those behind this website. You are doing great work for the Lord. Now my questions: Thank you in anticipation. Answer: The wording of your first question shows a misunderstanding of the relationship between a husband and wife in marriage. No one should force another person to submit.
Question: What can the church do in a situation where a sister says she has been deceived by an impotent brother? The brother concealed the matter until he had married the sister. Can the sister marry another person since she desires children and was misled? Answer: The short answer is, “no.” She married the man.
Question: If I am married, and I am having sex with my wife, is pulling out a sin? Judah’s son pulled out when performing his brotherly duties and was struck dead by God. I know that it was because he robbed Tamar of her right to a child, but Deuteronomy and Leviticus speak of the